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Event: Kink 101: What is a Dom?

Are you a queer, trans, and/or kinky person who wants to feel more confident in your kink abilities?

Join me for a virtual event where you’ll learn how to harness your unique domliness and walk away with the skills and tools to feel confident regardless of where you are in your journey.

Fill out the form below to register for this event. You will receive your private link 48 hours prior to start time.

All information and coaching provided is: confidential, private, and not a replacement for therapeutic or medical advice.

Suggested $25 per person, sliding scale. No one turned away for lack of funds — please email queersexcoach@gmail.com if you’d like to attend free. Payment link will be sent upon registration.

September 30th · 6:00 pm pst · Virtual

A certified sex coach for queer and trans people and couples sits smiling in a room with bright windows. They are trauma-informed, a certified sex and relationship coach, and help with lack of orgasm or less orgasms
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Kink 101: What is a Dom?
$15.00

What is a dominant? How do I be a good dominant? What is involved in setting up a scene? Learn how to access your dominant energy in a shame-free space. For Queer and Trans folks and their partners.

Sliding scale tickets are offered on the honor system. Pay the full amount if you are financially comfortable; if you are in financial hardship, choose the option that is genuinely best for you.

To pay $10, use discount code TEN

To pay $5, use discount code FIVE

To pay $0, use discount code ZERO

Sex Education for Queer and Trans People

  • Connection Session for Couples or Cules

    September 19th, 2026

    10:30 AM

    Virtual

    Bring your partner or partner(s) for this interactive class. I’ll teach you a few communication tools and then let you play. Q&A at the end!

  • Kink 101: What is a Dom?

    September 30th, 2026

    6:00 PM

    Virtual

    How do I Dom? What is a dom? How do i get into my dominant energy as a queer person?

    Let’s find out.

  • Fisting 101

    October 6th, 2026

    6:00pm

    Virtual

    How do I fist someone? How do I get ready to be fisted? Learn anatomy, angles, and tools to help you, whether you’re fisting or a fistee.

Our session will be

  • Personalized & Confidential

    Our initial sessions will be focused on assessing your current relational status to yourself and your desires for your ideal relationship.

    All our work is confidential.

  • Unique

    Each one of us is individually erotically wired. Through my one-of-a-kind system, we find exactly how your body needs to be spoken to so you can finally access your eroticism with ease.

  • Integrative

    If we throw tools at an overloaded system, they’re just going to bounce off. I use an approach that allows your nervous system to be on board for each easy step so you walk away with sexual wellness tools to use for a lifetime.

How you’ll feel:

Deep joy in your intimate relationships and confidence to move forward with what moves you.

Your Intimacy Toolkit

Workshop attendees exploring erotic play under soft lighting and sound guidance
  • You deserve as much love, kindness, and closeness both sexual and emotional as you give to others.

  • Learn how you’re naturally wired and simple ways to share that with your partner.

  • Receive custom daily meditations that ground you into your experience.

  • Benefit from ongoing support and guidance whenever you need it.

  • Tap into easy to follow guides that keep your sex life exciting and fulfilling for a lifetime.

FAQs

Is sex coaching right for me?

Many clients come to me after trying talk therapy, online courses, and as many saved Instagram reels that they can find. If you’re ready to move beyond overthinking into genuine, body-based change and you’re committed to showing up for yourself, you belong here. You deserve practical support that soothes emotional discomfort and helps you reconnect with your true self.

What if I'm unsure?

Come as you are. All experience levels are welcome. I recommend everyone, no matter their experience, try to receive this information from a blank slate. We learn best when we all start as beginners.

What if it feels like too much?

I began this work when I was at my lowest: feeling disappointment and frustration with how I was showing up for myself. I understand that place, and I know you can move through it too. I’m with you at each step, guiding you to reclaim your strength and step into your powerful, sexually-sovereign, beautiful self.

How is coaching different from therapy?

Coaching is not a replacement for therapy. Therapy focuses on the story and the past; coaching focuses on your goals, with tools and guides to help. I do recommend seeing a therapist or sex therapist before or during our work together.